When Rules Divide: The Unseen Wall Between Letter and Spirit
I see it everywhere. In the anxious whisper of a friend wondering if their food is zabihah enough. In the swift, judgmental glance towards someone whose hijab doesn’t meet an unwritten standard. In the quiet exclusion of those who are deemed "not religious enough" because their practice looks different. This isn't an essay about one specific Islamic ruling. This is about a sickness of the heart that can sometimes infect our communities—a sickness born from a dangerous misunderstanding. It’s the belief that faith is a fortress to be defended with rigid rules, rather than a garden to be nurtured with compassion. We have become so skilled at following the letter of the law that we have, at times, forgotten its spirit. And in doing so, we are building invisible walls between ourselves and the very people we are meant to connect with: our fellow Muslims, and our fellow human beings. The Goodness of the Rule, The Danger of the Lens Let’s be clear. The rules—the ahkam—are not th...